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Paul Random

Aug 12 2025

Senator Tim Scott and 10 Quotes: From Chick-fil-A to Congress

Whoever said Chick-fil-A’s waffle fries aren’t good for you isn’t familiar with the remarkable rise of Senator Tim Scott.

South Carolina’s junior senator since 2013, Tim Scott worked in a movie theater as a teenager growing up in North Charleston. On breaks, he’d stop by the adjacent Chick-fil-A restaurant where he’d order waffle fries and a water.

John Moniz, the restaurant’s owner-operator, once asked him why he only ordered the fries and not a chicken sandwich. Tim told him it was what he could afford. The two men struck up a friendship, which eventually evolved into a mentorship.

Senator Scott credits the late Chick-fil-A operator with helping instill in him Christian, conservative, and common-sense ideals he was then able to develop and make his own.

Those convictions are on full display in Senator Scott’s new book, One Nation Always Under God, which emphasizes the importance of prayer and faith in every truly successful life. It’s a book filled with inspirational stories of ordinary people who did extraordinary things with the gifts they were given.

Here are ten memorable convictional observations from Senator Scott in the book as he details these “profiles in Christian courage.”

  1. “We can’t return to our foundational principles if we relegate them to one day of the week. Jesus’s teachings aren’t just for Sundays. They’re meant to transform our lives, and that means the work we do the rest of our time.”

  2. “Each of us can make choices that will shift the course of our lives, our families, our communities, our nation, and, ultimately, our world.”

  3. “Vision requires us to believe that we have agency and responsibility. Victimhood kills vision.”

  4. “Truth is not subjective … Faith is a guiding force when standing for justice.”

  5. “Each and every one of us has dreams that God has woven into our hearts. Yet so many of us have pushed down these dreams for hundreds of reasons.”

  6. “Faith and prayer are interconnected. Prayer is more than a formal conversation with God; it is an invitation to dream with Him. If we can see prayer through this lens, it transforms our prayer times into a dynamic process of aligning our imaginations with God’s will, where our deepest dreams and hopes are intertwined with divine inspiration.”

  7. “The American Dream is about more than just effort. Every hard thing we do is enabled by the grace that God has shown us.”

  8. “Spiritual revival often leads to social and political reform.”

  9. “God blesses us so we can bless others.”

  10. “Prayer is never a substitute for hard work and perseverance.”

Senator Scott ends the book on a personal note. On August 3, 2024 the South Carolinian married Mindy Noce, a mother of three.

“Marriage is a profound reminder that life is constantly renewing itself, offering us opportunities to reflect, recalibrate, and move forward with a purpose,” Senator Scott writes. “New beginnings are about more than simply turning the page – they are about building on what came before while dreaming of what can be.”

Whether writing about marriage, life, and even a nation as it approaches its 250th birthday in 2025, Senator Scott’s reflections land during a critical season of our nation’s history.

Image from Getty.

Written by Paul Batura · Categorized: Culture · Tagged: Paul Random

Aug 07 2025

Matt Walsh, Bob Newhart and Marriage-Saving Help 

The Daily Wire’s Matt Walsh doesn’t temper or hold back his opinions, one of the many reasons he enjoys such a loyal and robust following both on social media and on his popular daily podcast, The Matt Walsh Show.

Earlier this week, Matt weighed in on the subject of marriage counseling, of a sort. In a post on X, Walsh tweeted:

With almost 15 years of marriage and six kids, l’m better qualified to be a couples therapist than like 95 percent of the people in the profession. The bonus is that my sessions would usually be very short. Most marriage problems can be solved if you both stop acting like stupid children and get over yourselves. End of session. That will be 600 dollars, thank you.

Matt and his wife, Alissa, have been married since 2011. Though a celebrated curmudgeon and contrarian, he often speaks lovingly about his wife and children, advocating strongly for having a large family. He’s talked about the controlled beautiful chaos of children and how it beats the quiet of a childless home.

Another one of Matt’s many gifts is his ability to synthesize complex issues down into very succinct soundbites. This tack has triggered many a radical who loses their mind over some of his many provocative statements over the years. It might be bad for the mental health of those who oppose a social conservative point of view, but it’s very good for clicks and ratings. 

So, what of Matt’s take on marriage or couple’s counseling? Is it true that most marital problems would be solved or never happen in the first place if husbands and wives were less selfish and childish and more selfless and mature?

It’s not clear from Matt’s take whether he’s talking about all marriage counseling or drawing any distinction between advice and therapy offered from a Christian and secular perspective. Ideally, Christian counselors integrate their biblical faith and training. They don’t subscribe to many of the very troublesome aspects you might find in non-Christian practices.

When counselors don’t acknowledge or recognize that God needs to be the foundation of a healthy marriage, it’s not surprising that marital conflicts are more difficult to tackle. That’s because Christians and non-Christians have a very different view on the purpose of marriage itself.

But would most problems really be solved by couples “getting over themselves”?

“I wish it was that simple,” said Dr. Bob Paul, vice president of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute.

“I honestly would love to work myself out of a job and wish my profession was unneeded.”

Dr. Paul went on to talk about how our sin nature “sets up an ideal environment to make intimate relationships challenging.”

Geremy Keeton, a licensed counselor who heads up our counseling team here at the ministry, is in agreement. 

“If only our human psyche, wounds, and automatic responses operated that logically, straightforward and simply,” he said. “Bob Newhart employed this model of counseling. Would love it, if it only worked.”

The comic Bob Newhart played a counselor in one of his popular television sitcoms. He subsequently filmed a skit in which a woman, who fears being buried alive in a box, comes to see him.

“I’m going to say two words to you, Katherine, and I want you to listen to them very carefully,” Newhart tells her. “Should I write them down?” she asks. “If it makes you comfortable, but most people can remember them,” Bob replies. He then proceeds to tell her the two words:

“Stop it!” he hollers.

Of course, stopping the selfishness and childish antics that far too many couples struggle with would have a profound impact on marital harmony. Immaturity is corrosive and destructive in any marriage. 

But why are these couples struggling with these sins and faults in the first place? Yes, sin, but also because of family patterns and a whole host of other reasons that can sometimes take time, effort, energy, and emotion to unpack and fully understand. Stopping a bad behavior is a start – but knowing why you act and how to prevent and change for good is part of any healthy counseling exercise.

Focus on the Family has a wonderful team of counselors who offer free one-time consultations with anyone who might be struggling with a wide range of problems, especially a troubled marriage. We have an excellent Christian Counselors Network spread across the country that we can refer individuals and couples to after assessing the situation. These are licensed and credentialed professionals who love the Lord and have a heart for helping people through difficult times.

Focus on the Family’s Hope Restored marriage centers are also poised to help husbands and wives who are in crisis or even on the verge of divorce. Located in Branson, Missouri, Rome, Georgia, Greenville, Michigan, Wimberly, Texas, and soon-to-be-opened Cave Creek Arizona, we offer 3-5-day intensive counseling sessions that have transformed and saved thousands of marriages. 

At this point, Matt Walsh is not one of our many licensed marriage counselors,  but we send our hale and hearty congratulations to he and Alissa as they prepare to celebrate 15 years with their six great children.

Written by Paul Batura · Categorized: Marriage · Tagged: Paul Random, Questionable Takes

Aug 06 2025

President Trump, Youth Fitness and the Need to Focus on the Family

When President Dwight Eisenhower announced plans back in 1956 to establish a “President’s Council on Youth Fitness,” the former Supreme Commander of the Allied Expeditionary Force in Europe was clear when it came to the government’s primary objective.

According to the president, the goal was to achieve “a happier, healthier and more totally fit youth in America.”

To make this happen, the “Presidential Fitness Test” evolved over the years – a once-or-twice-a-year physical contest for students between the ages of 10 and 17. Drills included running, push-ups and pull-ups.

Readers of a certain age will undoubtedly recall huffing and puffing around their school’s track or dangling from the pull-bar in the gym.

President Obama “retired” the competition in 2013 citing a myriad of reasons, including concern that less-fit children were being shamed by their failure to meet the test’s high standards.

Last week, President Donald Trump announced plans to reinstate the program.

“This was a wonderful tradition, and we’re bringing it back,” declared the president at a signing ceremony.

President Eisenhower was inspired to do something about the youth’s declining health after it was revealed upwards of 40% of the country’s young men couldn’t physically pass muster to join the military in World War II. As the country grew more urban and suburban, fewer children were spending hours outside. Instead, they were becoming more sedentary – a trend only exacerbated by the growth of television, processed foods and the widespread use of air conditioning.

The alarm was a bipartisan concern.

Less than a month before his inauguration, then president-elect Kennedy wrote an essay for “Sports Illustrated” titled “The Soft American” in which he warned about the dangers of raising children who preferred a couch or chair to a tennis court or other physical activity:

“The harsh fact of the matter is that there is an increasingly large number of young Americans who are neglecting their bodies — whose physical fitness is not what it should be — who are getting soft. And such softness on the part of individual citizens can help to strip and destroy the vitality of a nation.

“For the physical vigor of our citizens is one of America’s most precious resources. If we waste and neglect this resource, if we allow it to dwindle and grow soft then we will destroy much of our ability to meet the great and vital challenges which confront our people. We will be unable to realize our full potential as a nation.”

Kennedy’s words have proven prescient. As obesity rates among youth hit all-time highs, malaise and apathy paralyze today’s youth. Most would rather play a video game than play on an organized sports team or run free in a park.

JFK went on to quote President Teddy Roosevelt’s warning of what he called “slothful ease” that seemed to be creeping into culture. The 35th president warned:

“But no matter how vigorous the leadership of government, we can fully restore the physical soundness of our nation only if every American is willing to assume responsibility for his own fitness and the fitness of his children.

“We do not live in a regimented society where men are forced to live their lives in the interest of the state. We are, all of us, as free to direct the activities of our bodies as we are to pursue the objects of our thought. But if we are to retain this freedom, for ourselves and for generations yet to come, then we must also be willing to work for the physical toughness on which the courage and intelligence and skill of man so largely depend.

“All of us must consider our own responsibilities for the physical vigor of our children and of the young men and women of our community. We do not want our children to become a generation of spectators. Rather, we want each of them to be a participant in the vigorous life.”

In pointing back to the responsibilities of the individual and the family, President Kennedy echoed something President Eisenhower said at the very beginning of the fitness program. According to the 34th chief executive, “The fitness of our young people is essentially a home and local community problem.”

Not surprisingly, the committee that was assembled at the time noted youth “fitness” wasn’t just physical but also mental, emotional, social and spiritual.

It’s a good thing that President Trump is reinstating the Presidential Fitness Test, but children will only succeed and thrive if moms and dads in the home model healthy behavior in thought, word, and deed. Our children watch more than they listen.

It’s the wise parent who doesn’t just encourage their son or daughter to be physically active, but who also invites the children to join them in the yard or park to play.

Image from Getty.

Written by Paul Batura · Categorized: Culture · Tagged: Paul Random

Aug 05 2025

NFL’s Jared Allen to Daughters: ‘Always Put Christ First’

Former Minnesota Vikings, Kansas City Chiefs, Chicago Bears, and Carolina Pathers’ defensive end Jared Allen gave an emotional 14-minute NFL Hall of Fame induction speech during Sunday’s ceremony in Canton, Ohio, notably paying tribute to his family.

The now 43-year-old retired elite pass rusher has come a long way from his uneven early days in the league when he was arrested twice in six months for driving while intoxicated.

Playing with the Kansas City Chiefs at the time, it was Allen’s “Grandpa Ray” who sat him down and challenged him to turn his life around.

“Ray Allen, Grandpa Ray, was a hardcore Marine,” Allen said. “Served in Korea. Did two tours in Vietnam. Great character. Toughest guy you’d ever meet.” 

The young NFL player was reeling and close to getting kicked out of the league.  “He said something that will stick with me forever,” recalled the Hall of Famer. 

“He said, ‘I didn’t drag this last name through three wars just so you could screw it up.’”

Jared Allen grew up on a ranch in California and was expelled from high school for stealing yearbooks. He said it was “Just dumb kid stuff I thought was funny but ended up not being funny.” 

The University of Washington rescinded their football scholarship offer, and Allen settled in at Idaho State to play instead. He excelled on the field and was drafted by the Kansas Chiefs in the fourth round of the 2004 draft, 126th overall.

Despite his off-field antics, Allen performed well in the NFL, but the Chiefs were unwilling to invest in him long-term at the asking price, so he was traded to Minnesota.

Looking back, Jared credits his grandfather and family with helping him get back on track.

On Sunday, Allen spoke lovingly from the stage of the influence of his mother and father.

Speaking of his father, Ron Allen:

“I’m reminded of Philippians 4, verses 11 and 12. The verse reads, ‘I’m not saying this because I’m in need, for I have learned to be content in whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, I know what it is to have plenty.’ You [Dad], never let circumstance affect your joy. You are a constant example of hard work. You taught me work ethic, and most importantly, your consistent belief in me gave me the confidence to achieve greatness. And I love you for that.”

To his mother, Sara Chapman:

“You were always a source of compassion and grace. Always there with a prayer, even when I was a complete knucklehead. And you never judged me, at least not to my face, so I appreciate that.”

To his wife, Amy Johnson:

“I’m reminded of what Tom Lanphier said when we were going through our premarital counseling. He said, ‘The two most important decisions you’ll make in life is 1.) Whether you follow Jesus or not and 2.) Who you marry. Because there’s only two types of people. There’s boat anchors who drag you down, and there’s people who elevate you.’

“You [Amy] are a true game elevator. You’re one of the smartest people I know. I am in awe of you every single day, and I love you more than life itself.”

To his daughters, Brittany and Lachlan:

“I’m here to tell you two, you are my greatest accomplishments. When I get called home to Heaven one day, if all they talk about is this gold jacket, my career, then I’ve failed miserably as a father, a husband, and a friend. You two are my legacy. You are both so talented. I cannot wait to see what you decide to do to conquer this world. So always put Christ first, find your way, dream big dreams, always pursue greatness in whatever you do.”

If not for the firm and loving guidance of his grandfather, Jared Allen’s NFL career might very well have ended in its infancy. From his reflections on Sunday, it seems apparent that the former NFL standout has allowed himself to be shaped and influenced by a growing Christian faith – a devotion that he now seems intent on passing on to the couple’s two young daughters.

That’s a legacy that far surpasses any bust or gold jacket in Canton, Ohio.

Image credit: NFL/Instagram

Written by Paul Batura · Categorized: Culture · Tagged: NFL, Paul Random

Aug 04 2025

Parents Beware: Addictive Opioid Gummies Being Sold at Gas Stations Near You

A new report from the U.S. Food and Drug Administration is calling attention to an escalating crisis that’s threatening to ensnare the health, safety and lives of Americans – especially unsuspecting young people.

There’s a substance, 7-hydroxymitragynine, also known as 7-OH, showing up in gummies, tablets and even drink mixes, many of which are being sold at convenience stores and online.

Nicknamed “Gas Station Heroin,” it’s a concentrated byproduct of the kratom plant that produces opioid-like effects. It’s reportedly 13 times more potent than morphine. It’s also highly addictive.

The products it’s in promise to help buyers ease existing pain, relax, or even help them focus or elevate their mood.

Even though there are no FDA approved drug uses for the dangerous compound, many of the products are being label as “dietary supplements.” It’s a misleading and potentially deadly lie.

“They’re marketed for children,” warned Robert F. Kennedy, Jr., Secretary of Health and Human Services (HHS). “They’re gummy bears. They’re bright colors. They’re candy flavored.”

“Vape stores are popping up in every neighborhood in America, and many are selling addictive products like concentrated 7-OH,” said FDA Commissioner Dr. Marty Makary.   “After the last wave of the opioid epidemic, we cannot get caught flat-footed again. We need regulation and public education to prevent another wave of the opioid epidemic.”

At last week’s news conference calling for the compound to be reclassified and banned from some of its current uses, Jim O’Neill, Deputy Secretary of the U.S. Health and Human Services, warned that concerns were more than theoretical.

“We’ve seen a disturbing rise in reports of overdoses, poisonings and emergency room visits linked to products containing 7-OH,” he told those gathered.

Close to two million people reported using kratom back in 2022. In addition to the synthetic opioid being highly addicted and destructive, it’s also known to cause seizures and liver toxicity.

Thanks to Secretary Kennedy, the Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA) will review the drug and consider its classification.

In the meantime, the FDA has issued warning letters calling out the numerous companies selling products that contain the addictive opioid:

  • Shaman Botanicals, LLC
  • My Smoke Wholesale
  • Relax Relief Rejuvenate Trading, LLC
  • Thang Botanicals, Inc.
  • Royal Diamond Imports, Inc.
  • Hydroxie, LLC
  • 7Tabz Retail, LLC

The companies must respond to the government within the next fifteen days.

Parents are always navigating a myriad of concerns, especially the fear of their children becoming addicted to drugs. This latest iteration is on the federal radar, but the dangerous and toxic products in question are nevertheless currently within arm’s length of the children in our neighborhood.

Image from Getty.

Written by Paul Batura · Categorized: Culture · Tagged: FDA, Paul Random

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