One of the world’s wealthiest couples, Bill and Melinda Gates, recently announced that they were planning on ending their 27-year marriage. It came as a shock, as the relationship had seemed quite solid and they were dedicated to their philanthropic Gates Foundation.

In a statement made on both of their Twitter accounts, the couple said, “After a great deal of thought and a lot of work on our relationship, we have made the decision to end our marriage. Over the last 27 years, we have raised three incredible children and built a foundation that works all over the world to enable all people to lead healthy, productive lives. We continue to share a belief in that mission and will continue our work together at the foundation, but we no longer believe we can grow together as a couple in this next phase of our lives. We ask for space and privacy for our family as we begin to navigate this new life.”

Jennifer Gates, the couples eldest child and passionate equestrian, said in an Instagram story, “By now, many of you have heard the news that my parents are separating. It’s been a challenging stretch of time for our whole family.

“I’m still learning how to best support my own process and emotions as well as family members at this time, and am grateful for the space to do so. I won’t personally comment further on anything around the separation, but please know that your kind words and support mean the world to me.”

According to reports, Melinda filed divorce papers in King County, Washington on Monday and asked the judge “to dissolve the marriage based on the couple’s separation contract. No financial details were included in the publicly available documents.” Experts believe that a division has already taken place as Melinda did not ask for spousal support.

In her divorce petition, she states that, “This marriage is irretrievably broken.”

The couple met at Microsoft, the business that Bill Gates started, in 1987 where Melinda began work as a product manager.

The couple married in 1994, after first meeting in 1987. In addition to Jennifer, the couple also have two other children, Rory, 21 and Phoebe, 18.

When the news broke on May 3, it was surprising. From the outside, it appeared like the couple were dedicated to their relationship and philanthropic activities. But, like any other marriage, there were issues underneath the surface.

This is not the first high-profile split from a massively wealthy couple who had been married for over two decades.

In 2019, Amazon founder Jeff Bezos and his wife MacKenzie Scott announced their divorce after about 25 years of marriage. The couple were also married in 1994. Scott received a lump sum worth billions, while Bezos moved on quite quickly to another woman.

Marriage isn’t easy, and all the money in the world is not enough to truly fix a fractured relationship. Yes, it can make life easier, but material wealth isn’t a cure all for marital woes.

In fact, financial stress is one of the leading causes of divorce. While having billions in the bank can relieve some of that worry, how that money is spent could easily become a point of contention. This happens whether a couple has only a $100 in the checking account or $100 billion.

But for those couples who, like the Gates, are walking through a time of uncertainty and on the brink of divorce, there is hope.

Focus on the Family has a marriage intensive called Hope Restored, which is a “counseling retreat to help your marriage survive and? thrive.” This three-to-five-day intensive provides couples with the opportunity to meet with therapists who are “trained in our unique intensive approach” and it truly has changed lives.

One couple who attended said, “After 21 years of many heartaches and struggles…we had so much hurt and grief built up that our marriage was coming apart at the seams. The miracle of a 4-day intensive has been amazing.”

For more information on Hope Restored, click here.

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