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JD and Usha Vance Say Erika Kirk’s Regret Shaped Their Fourth Child Decision

In his forthcoming book, Communion: Finding My Way Back to Faith, Vice President JD Vance suggests that the assassination of his friend Charlie Kirk led to the Vances’ fourth pregnancy.

The vice president writes:

“For years I had asked Usha to have another baby, and for years she had told me she was done—especially now that public service had elevated us into the national spotlight.”

The Vances are busy raising three children: Ewan (8), Vivek (6) and Mirabel (4).

Prior to being elected vice president, Vance served as a United States senator in Ohio, beginning in 2023. He served in the U.S. Marines then met his wife, Usha, while they were both attending Yale Law School. They married a year after graduation. 

Vice President Vance and Turning Point USA founder Charlie Kirk forged a strong friendship after Vance had been elected to the Senate. They would get together whenever possible and spoke regularly on the phone – especially as the media spotlight homed in on the Ohio senator during the 2024 campaign.

When Senator Vance expressed concern that son Ewan was beginning to resent the family’s fame and attention, Kirk counseled him.

“Don’t try to convince your son it’s not a sacrifice,” Charlie told him. “It is. Just try to take some solace in the fact that it’s a worthy sacrifice. I’ll say a prayer for you.” 

But then came the awful day in September 2025. After news of Charlie’s murder, the Vances flew to Utah to minister to Erika. VP Vance writes about it in his new book:

“As my wife held Charlie Kirk’s widow on the first day of her terrible sorrow, Erika told Usha between sobs that she regretted having only two kids with Charlie.”

There’s little doubt the Kirks wanted more children and they likely would have if Charlie had not been assassinated.

“Get married,” urged Charlie Kirk back when he was alive. “Have children. Build a legacy. Pass down your values. Pursue the eternal. Seek true joy. Having children is way more important than having a good career.”

According to Vice President Vance, the time grieving with Erika Kirk had a profound impact on his wife.

“Something changed for Usha, and not long after we buried my friend, she became pregnant with our fourth child, a boy,” Vance writes. 

He then added:

“One life was stolen from us, but another was given. I don’t know why God does things like this. But I am grateful to Him that there will soon be another source of joy in our lives. Another person added to the communion of our family and hopefully to that of the Church. Another person to whom I will sing, ‘Jesus loves me, this I know.’ Another beautiful soul to wonder at, and fall in love with, God’s beautiful creation.”

Few people know anyone who regrets having too many children, but we all know people who wish they had more.

As Christians, we should be the most vocal and effective promoters of marriage and children – and we do that by modeling the blessings of a happy family filled with as many souls as the Lord sees fit to loan us.

The Mislabeling of Christian Patriots as Christian Nationalists Must Stop

The uneven and unhinged have always been susceptible to the delusional and fantastical, but the normalization of the abnormal is now getting people killed and threatening the lives of far too many.

Case in point:

On Thursday, police arrested Jacob Wenske, 26, for threatening to assassinate Erika Kirk, the widow of Charlie Kirk, the slain Turning Point USA founder.

Erika Kirk is now CEO of the organization. In the months since her husband’s murder, she’s been subjected to an ongoing stream of grifters lobbing baseless accusations, countless conspiracy theories and downright wicked and evil commentary.

This latest attack comes just ahead of a planned three-day Women’s Leadership Conference in San Antonio where Mrs. Kirk is scheduled to speak.

The would-be assassin shared the motive for his planned attack on social media. In part, here is what he wrote:

“Death to Erika Kirk and every single speaker there! America will live on without those scum on this earth. Every Christian nationalist shall perish in the bombing that will take place at every single Turning Point rally and event.”

So, in addition to Erika Kirk, who are these supposed “Christian nationalists” slated to speak at the June event?

Podcaster Allie Beth Stuckey, Riley Gaines, Kayleigh McEnany, Governor Sarah Huckabee Sanders, Kristan Hawkins and Judge Jeanine Pirro, to name just a few.

None of them are so-called Christian nationalists, but many may not know that thanks to the reckless, relentless and irresponsible fanning of the term these last few years.

Socially conservative patriotic Christians are tagged with the term because media and radical activists see the labeling as an effective tool to degrade, diminish and hopefully derail their activism. It’s become a slur, and even some Christians are falling for the nonsense.

To be clear, a true Christian nationalist would be someone who puts their allegiance to their country in front of their Savior, Jesus Christ. It might even be someone who elevates a politician to the same level as God. It’s a distorted and disordered prioritization of things.

It happens – but it is rare.

Charlie Kirk was often called a “Christian nationalist” by detractors simply because he recognized that America’s founders were driven by their faith and a sense of Divine destiny. But Charlie Kirk did not worship America – he worshipped Jesus, a prophet and King whom he believed had blessed the United States of America.

Deliberately or irresponsibly tossing around the term gives license to radical or mentally unstable actors. In their sick minds, it justifies violence and encourages them to right what they perceive to be wrong.

The mislabeling of Christian patriotism as Christian nationalism isn’t just a mischaracterization. It’s now proving to be a dangerous and even deadly tactic that must be stopped and called out.

Please join us in praying for the protection of Erika Kirk and all Christian believers who are responding to God’s call on their lives to engage culture in the public square. 

Please Keep Praying for Erika Kirk

It’s been almost 8 months since Turning Point USA (TPUSA) founder and beloved Christian conservative broadcaster Charlie Kirk was gunned down in cold blood on the campus of Utah Valley University.

Whenever tragedy strikes, Christians offer condolences and prayers for the families and friends of the loved ones left behind. We do this because we believe God hears our prayers (Psalm 55:16-17) and is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).

Many of us have been praying for Erika Kirk, the widow of Charlie Kirk, who was left not only as a grieving spouse, but also as a mother of young children. But she’s also been forced to bear the wicked, evil, and outlandish claims of clearly unstable and unhinged grifters accusing her of nearly everything under the sun – including playing a part in her husband’s murder.

On Wednesday, Erika Kirk released a video in partial response to some of these outrageous accusations. The now CEO of TPUSA was a guest at the White House Correspondents Dinner and explained why she chose to attend.

“It was because many of the journalists in that room have attempted to dehumanize me,” she shared. “And I wanted to meet some of them face to face, quite frankly.”

Mrs. Kirk noted the curious dynamic of camaraderie in the ballroom prior to the evacuation after the shooting in the lobby of the Washington Hilton. She remarked to a reporter with the Daily Mail, “For one night, you are able to put aside all of your differences for the sake of freedom of speech. And then by Monday morning, things will go back to being an absolute bloodbath between all of you.”

In the video released Wednesday, Erika Kirk noted the sad irony of how it was a schoolteacher who was trying to kill President Trump.

“You have these people who are supposed to be teaching our children the future of this country,” she observed. “And he’s so unhinged that he’s able to teach children by day and then attempt to murder the president of the United States by night.”

Mrs. Kirk went on to make a profound and chilling observation:

“While we may have big problems with illegal immigration in this country, I have to tell you, we have an even bigger problem when it comes to the systemic indoctrination and radicalization of our own citizens. This is what got my husband killed. This is what has led to three legitimate attempts on President Trump’s life. And I can speak firsthand to that unbearable toll that this must take on our First Lady.”

This is one more reason why Christians should continue to pray for Erika Kirk. The death of her husband was shocking and unsettling. But life eventually goes on for the observer, even someone deeply moved and upset by the evil everyone saw on September 10, 2025. And life has gone on for Erika – but in a very different and difficult way. 

“Every morning, I wake up to a new headline lying about me,” Erika Kirk stated. “I have comedians dressing up in whiteface. I have people saying I’m not fit to be CEO. And I have Candace Owens claiming I murdered my husband. And the list goes on and on and on.”

Why is this happening? 

“There is a serious epidemic of dehumanization plaguing this country,” she continued. “The most unthinkable tragedies have now become commonplace in our daily headlines. And yet the media finds a way to conveniently explain away violence.”

This grotesque and gutless treatment of a grieving widow is heartbreaking and maddening. But it can also ignite and steel the resolve of Christians to pushback and double down on their commitment to face the evil head-on. 

That’s precisely how Erika Kirk is responding to the ongoing barrage of bullying.

“The evil forces working to divide us, to distract us, and to pull us apart have never been stronger,” she acknowledged. “This is a moment for Americans to come together and decide what kind of country we’re going to be before we lose our country altogether. In Romans 12, verse 21, it says, ‘Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.’”

May the Lord bless Erika Kirk’s resolve and may He do likewise regarding our steadfastness, too.

Erika Kirk: “The opinions of this world mean nothing to me.”

It’s been 134 days since an assassin’s bullet killed her husband, Charlie Kirk, but Erika Kirk has soldiered on, including speaking last night at Harvest Church in Los Angeles to kick off Turning Point USA’s “Make Heaven Crowded” tour.

Billed as “A gospel centered gathering calling people to repentance, faith, and bold obedience to Jesus,” the event is planned for 29 other cities this year throughout the United States. They’ll be at Awaken Church in San Diego on Thursday night.

In addition to TPUSA president Erika Kirk, Wednesday’s service featured Pastor Greg Laurie.

At the time of the slain TPUSA founder’s death, Pastor Laurie had stated, “The greatest tribute we can pay to Charlie is calling people to Christ and speaking unashamedly on cultural issues.”

That’s precisely what many within the TPUSA orbit have done, especially Erika Kirk. For doing so, she’s been vilified by some radical activists and even accused by unhinged conspiratorialists for being implicit in her husband’s murder. Others have judged her for jumping back into the work, even questioning how she’s been grieving.

Rather than engage the criticism or defend her actions, Mrs. Kirk has kept her focus on the work at hand. She told Fox News’ Shannon Bream, “If myself or Charlie spent every single second responding to every accusation, responding to every insult, every judgment, we’d get nothing done. We just wouldn’t. I’m not gonna ask God to remove those people from life. It just makes me stronger.”

Speaking on Wednesday night at Harvest Church, Erika picked up on that philosophy, sharing a perspective that is both refreshing and instructive for those of us who understand that the Lord commands us to be engaged in culture. She told those gathered:

I operate very clearly. Whatever decision is in front of me, it will go through a very strict lens. Is this going to bring me closer to Heaven or is it going to bring me further away from Heaven? If it is going to bring me further away from heaven, step aside Satan, I do not want to touch you with a 10-foot pole.

I do not want to be around anything that is going to take me further away from my home in Heaven. I don’t. That’s where my heart is.

She then delivered a statement that every Christian can personalize and take to heart:

And so as long as I remain obedient to God and abide in His Word, and I’m in the jet stream of His Will, the opinions of this world mean nothing to me. Nothing. 

With the advent of social media and the explosion of citizen and activist journalists, there are more opinions than ever being pushed out — and often to decry or to diminish the socially conservative point of view. The drumbeat is persistent and consistent. It’s easy to be swept up in it, especially given the worldly trappings that often surround the popularly held opinions of the day. 

But millions of followers don’t make a foolish opinion right. The acclaim or acceptance of others won’t soften or forgive sin. As King Solomon advised, “Leave the presence of a fool, for there you do not meet words of knowledge” (Proverbs 14:7).

As the late Dr. Adrian Rogers observed, “It doesn’t matter if you please the whole world and don’t please Jesus. But if you please Jesus, it doesn’t matter whom you displease.”

Please continue praying for Erika Kirk and her family.

The 3 Questions Found on Charlie Kirk’s Desk After He Was Killed

It’s been almost two months since Turning Point USA founder Charlie Kirk was killed by a radical assassin at Utah Valley University in Orem, Utah. In the weeks following his tragic death, Erika Kirk, Charlie’s widow, has made a few select public appearances – including her first since her husband’s death on a college campus last week at Ole Miss.

Returning to an academic venue was a “spiritual reclaiming of territory,” Kirk told students. “And the more that I am coming to grips with the permanency of this nightmare, the more that I am starting to realize and witness that the enemy, he doesn’t want you.”

“He wants your territory. He wants your influence. And I could just hear Charlie in my heart. I could just hear him say, ‘Go reclaim that territory … the battles that God’s love conquers.’ And that’s why I’m here today,” she continued.

College campuses have long been a hotbed for the robust exchange of ideas. Often monopolized beginning in the 1960s by liberal activists eager to launch a social revolution on various fronts, conservative groups like TPUSA and the Young America’s Foundation have enjoyed a growing presence at both high school and colleges across the country.

Appearing alongside Vice President JD Vance last week, Erika Kirk encouraged the thousands of students in attendance to “earn” their voice. “You are the courageous generation,” she told them.

Choking back tears, Erika shared a moving story about sleeping on her late husband’s side of the bed and waking up to see a sign on a bookshelf that he had put there: “They will be known by the boldness of their faith.”

Luke wrote in Acts,

“Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were uneducated, common men, they were astonished. And they recognized that they had been with Jesus.”

Nonbelievers watch and study Christians. While some may be looking for hypocrisy, it’s the faithful and bold servant whose strong witness can leave them hungry to learn more about the Jesus we worship.

Erika Kirk also shared that she found three questions on Charlie’s desk at home. They were in his handwriting and they were questions he asked himself every day:

  1. What is something I can do for someone today?
  2. What is something I can do to add value to the world today?
  3. How can I honor God today?”

“Those were his action points for courage,” Erika said. “Ask yourself those questions every day, and I promise you, you will get courage. What death amplifies even more is that you only get one life. So live like it matters.”

She then urged the crowd at Ole Miss,

“Love your family fearlessly. Love your spouse fearlessly. Love this country. Defend her and serve our God. And don’t think that it’s someone else’s role to do it. You do it.”

Christians who have passed from this world to the next can still influence us by their memory and sometimes, with the words they leave behind. Charlie’s Kirk’s three questions are biblical, practical, convictional, and timeless. How we answer them will impact how we live – and how we serve the Lord and those we’re privileged to cross paths with each and every day.

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