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Nov 05 2024

San Jose Coach Suspended for Filing Discrimination Complaint Against Transgender Player

Melissa Batie-Smoose, women’s volleyball associate head coach at San José State University, was suspended over the weekend after she filed a Title IX complaint asking the Mountain West Conference and the NCAA to investigate the school for discriminating against female athletes in favor of a “transgender” player, Blaire Fleming.

The male-bodied athlete has been the source of contention both for the Spartans and other schools.

Women’s volleyball teams at five universities have now chosen to forfeit six times rather than play San José State, Outkick reported. The latest, Boise State, has now forfeited twice, as women on the team refused to face a male player.

Women volleyballers at the University of Nevada even held a press conference during the time their game would have been played, stating their opposition to men in women’s sports.

A report from Quillette’s Jonathan Kay, “College Volleyball’s Spartan Meltdown,” explains the two key issues from the Title X complaint. Batie-Smoose asked the conference and the NCAA to look into:

1. The overt favouritism [sic] that she believes her school has shown to Fleming, at the expense of Fleming’s 18 female teammates; and
2. The unsettling measures that SJSU officials have allegedly taken in order to suppress expressions of concern from these affected women.

In a scathing Title IX Complaint obtained by Quillette, a San José State University women’s volleyball coach explains how her school’s aggressively enforced transgender-inclusion policy created a toxic environment for female athletes, writes @jonkay. https://t.co/0xZgp7Z9UD

— Quillette (@Quillette) November 1, 2024

Kay also details some of Batie-Smoose’s allegations in her 33-page sworn declaration:

  • Neither Batie-Smoose nor incoming athletes were informed there would be a transgender player on the team because “SJSU has a policy of withholding such information from all newly recruited staff and athletes.” Fleming, a senior in his third season with the Spartans, only came out to the team as transgender in April 2024.
  • Fleming had “raw physical power” beyond most female athletes; what “stood out was spiking the [ball] and blocking on the front row, due to Fleming’s leaping ability and hitting power.”
  • Assistant Director of Student Wellness Laura Alexander told head coach Todd Kress, “Anyone opposed to Fleming’s inclusion on the women’s team should leave SJSU and seek ‘therapy.’”
  • While female athletes were “required to pretend that Fleming’s biologically male status is athletically inconsequential,” they were also “scared to even mention the fact that Fleming is transgender.”
  • Fleming’s “presence on the court” was not only “unfair to other athletes, but possibly dangerous as well.”
  • “Even defenders on Fleming’s own team, concerned for their safety, now sometimes turn away during practice matches when Fleming is winding up for a kill – a fear response … virtually unheard of in women’s volleyball.”

“The social atmosphere on the team has degenerated rapidly during the 2024 season, and now may be described as toxic, joyless, and dysfunctional,” Kay reports.

SJSU’s co-captain Brooke Slusser has been outspoken about the danger to female athletes and the unfairness of a male taking a woman’s spot on the team.

Alarmingly, the complaint details that Fleming may have conspired with an opposing team’s player, Colorado State University’s right-side-hitter Malaya Jones, to target Slusser on the court. Kay reports:

During that match, Batie-Smoose claims in her Title IX Complaint, Fleming’s play style was bizarre. Fleming defied her coaches’ instructions by allowing Jones an unhindered diagonal hitting lane that exposed Slusser to kills.
Batie-Smoose also reports that she repeatedly saw Fleming laughing together with Jones after the latter targeted Slusser in this manner. Fleming’s behaviour was reportedly so strange that even Kress expressed concern, and took Fleming aside for a one-on-one talk.

“At one point, Blaire sent an over pass, perfectly setting up Malaya to kill the ball again in the direction of Brooke Slusser, after [which] Jones blew a kiss toward Fleming and mouthed ‘thank you,’” Batie-Smoose told the reporter.

UNREAL VIDEO 🚨🚨People have been asking to see the play mentioned in the @Quillette article about Blaire Fleming intentionally setting up the ball to Malaya Jones on the OPPOSING TEAM so she can smash it back down at @BrookeSlusser.

Here is the quote. And below is the proof.… pic.twitter.com/E7ukqjQsFS

— Beth Bourne (@bourne_beth2345) November 3, 2024

In September 2024, “Slusser joined more than a dozen female athletes in suing the NCAA for Title IX violations,” reported Outkick:

The class-action lawsuit, originally filed in March and funded by the Independent Council on Women’s Sports (ICONS), states that the NCAA has knowingly violated Title IX by allowing transgender athletes to compete against women and to use women’s locker rooms in collegiate sports.

🚨Breaking: Teammate of Male Volleyball Player on Women's Scholarship Joins Riley Gaines in Lawsuit Against NCAA | @Outkick https://t.co/6wOv08oFIt

— ICONS (@icons_women) September 24, 2024

The Daily Citizen applauds women like Melissa Batie-Smoose and Brooke Slusser who are willing to battle for women’s sports. Women deserve safe spaces where they can grow and develop as competitors – without men intruding.

Related articles and resources:

Four Women’s Volleyball Teams Forfeit – Won’t Play Team with a Man

#SaveGirlsSports – New Campaign Launched by Family Policy Alliance

Canadian Powerlifter Faces Two-Year Ban for Protesting Males in Her Sport

Girls Don’t Chest Bump: Transgender Athletes Subverting Title IX

Middle School Girls Who Protested ‘Trans’ Athlete Are Banned From Future Competition

Moms for Liberty Sues Library for Censoring Forum to Protect Women’s Sports

Riley Gaines and 15 Other Female Athletes Sue NCAA Over ‘Transgender Policy’

Third Court Halts DOE’s Title IX Rewrite, Girls’ Sports & Spaces PreservedShoving Girls Off the Podium: More Male Athletes Participating in Girls Sports

Image credit: San Jose Spartans

Written by Jeff Johnston · Categorized: Culture · Tagged: LGBT, transgender

Oct 30 2024

Drag Queen at Seven Years Old — The Sobering Reality of Children in Drag

JUMP TO…
  • “Would Asa Want to Wear a Dress?”
  • Not Born This Way
  • X-Rated
  • Why It Matters

Many toddlers with an early affinity for dance end up in ballet or tap class. Seven-year-old Asa’s parents helped him become, “The most FABULOUS 7yo gender nonconforming Baby Drag Queen ever.”

A video compilation of Asa performing as his drag alter-ego, LuLu Lovely Twirls, collected more than three million views on X (formerly Twitter) this week over at least three accounts. Some clips show him holding hands with scantily dressed men. Others show him collecting tips from spectators.

The post draws heavily from a VICE video profile featuring Asa and his parents, who claim their son’s drag performances are no different than dance recitals.

Asa collects tips. Courtesy of VICE.

“[Our kids] all do different sports. They all have different activities that they do. But we have a child that’s interested in something that’s maybe not as traditional,” Asa’s dad told cameras.

“If he were a girl doing these exact same things, no one would be saying anything,” the seven-year-old’s mom added.

In the mini-documentary, Asa’s parents’ parrot two false narratives the Daily Citizen confronts often — that indulging gender ideology is compassionate and inclusive, and that sexual preferences and behaviors are part of a person’s identity.

In reality, they’ve set their son up for a lifetime of confusion and exploitation.

“Would Asa Want to Wear A Dress?”

The seven-year-old’s parents work hard to abdicate responsibility for their son’s hobby.

“Asa refers to himself as a drag queen,” his mom assures cameras. “He does it very proudly.”

Asa with adult performers. Courtesy of VICE.

“He’s done this since he was four, five and now six years old,” his dad claims, recalling how much Asa loved dancing as a toddler.

Asa performing. Courtesy of VICE.

But it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that Asa wouldn’t be in this predicament without his parents’ encouragement and instruction. Asa never spontaneously expressed interest in drag. He saw his first drag show at the tender age of four when his parents brought him to a Pride parade.

“[My wife] thought it would be a good way to bring our kids in and let them see the diversity of the world around us,” Asa’s dad explained, looking at his wife for confirmation.

Asa’s mom said her son became “obsessed with drag” for a year after his first exposure, which she claims “led to [the couple asking], ‘Would Asa ever want to wear a dress?’” Eventually, she bought him one.

Young children respond notoriously poorly to overwhelming, life-defining choices and notoriously well to positive reinforcement. Assuming he wasn’t hopelessly confused by choosing his gender and pronouns, there’s little reason Asa would refuse wearing a dress if it got him positive attention.

Notably, Asa told interviewers he wouldn’t wear a dress to school. Outside his character, Asa said he was a boy. As “Lulu Lovely Twirls,” the six-year-old said his pronouns were “she/they”.

Most young children can’t identify pronouns — at all at least not without an adult’s help.

A particularly disturbing incident occurred sometime after Asa’s mom bought him a dress. This is how she tells the story.

[Asa] said to me one day, “I’m going to go put on my dress and I am going to sing, and you’re going to video me and put me on Facebook so everybody can give me likes.” And I said, “Okay.” And that’s the video that really kind of spurred this journey, because I shared that video, and that’s how we got invited to the first [drag queen] brunch. That just led us to subsequent invitations.

It’s difficult to imagine Asa voicing this request independently. Regardless, his mom subsequently decided to film that video, share it on a platform infamous for child exploitation, and accept an invitation for her six-year-old to perform at an adult drag queen brunch.

That’s three conscious decisions to endanger her son.

Now, Asa’s parents say he performs at one event a month. They pay for hand-trimmed wigs and costumes. “There’s even adult performers he can sometimes outperform,” his mom bragged.

To people who worry Asa will later regret his drag days, his mom simply replies:

We’ve talked about it, and at the end of the day, we’ve raised a good ally and he’s done nothing wrong.
Not Born This Way

Asa’s mom repeatedly implies her son was destined to be a drag queen.

“He puts together and produces his own numbers for drag shows,” she explains. “I am in awe constantly with the fact that he can just maneuver and work the stage on a dime. It’s something innate in him.”

“It’s like he was born to do this,” she fawns another time, painting thick pink makeup over Asa’s eyelids.

These comments go beyond minimizing her responsibility. They make drag performance out to Asa’s identity — one of the essential, unchanging characteristics at the core of his being.

It isn’t. The God-given talents that make Asa a good performer aren’t his whole identity, either.

People’s talents, gifts, preferences, relationships, behaviors and passion for drag can all change. The only constant traits are sex, which dictates the construction of every human cell, and status as child of God.

Asa is a son of God. He wasn’t born to be anything else.

X-Rated

Asa’s mom claims “indecent drag” doesn’t take place in front of children.

If the clips of Asa picking up tips, mimicking traditionally provocative dance moves wearing fishnet stockings, and standing surrounded by men in varying states of undress represents “decent drag” — who knows what “indecent drag” entails.

Asa with adult drag queen. Courtesy of VICE.

Dubious, “kid-friendly” messaging doesn’t change that drag is inherently sexual.

The first documented “queen of drag” used the costume in sexual escapades. According to investigative journalist Christopher Rufo’s detailed exposé on drag, this man later spent 300 days in jail for running a brothel.

In the late 1960’s, drag became a means for the disenfranchised to topple established sexual norms. Performances would imitate taboo practices including bestiality, necrophilia and pedophilia to protest the domination of monogamy and marriage.

These roots did not disappear when RuPaul re-packaged the drag queen for common consumption. The dance moves, pageantry and caricature of womanhood come from a distinctly profane, sexual place. Asa’s parents allow their small son to partake in it all.

Asa’s receipt of tips is particularly problematic given a study of drag culture by queer theorist Sarah Hankins. The academic called the drag scene a “sociosexual economy” where people paid for sexual gratification. She writes of her experience,

As an audience member, I have always experienced the tip exchange as payment for sexual gratification. And I am aware that by holding up dollar bills, I can satisfy my arousal, at least partially: I can bring performers’ bodies close to mine and induce them to touch me or let me touch them.

Seven-year-old children are morally and legally precluded from providing sexual gratification for money. But Asa is — and his parents are cheering him on.

Asa collecting tips. Courtesy of VICE.
Why It Matters

Asa’s case exemplifies a larger cultural acceptance of children participating in drag. It’s vitally important for citizens to comprehend this perversion so they can intervene on behalf of children like Asa.

This case interacts with other deep, cultural flaws. Most states haven’t pursued bills preventing children from attending drag shows. At least two have failed — including one in Asa’s home state of Nebraska. Meanwhile, parents who disagree with gender ideology have been denied the opportunity to foster and adopt children. In some heartbreaking cases, families have had their children taken away for refusing to affirm their gender confusion.

The Daily Citizen reminds you not to grow desensitized to these issues. Evil should always grieve us. If you’re looking to help, remember to vote in this election! You can find other ways to get involved by contacting your state’s Focus on the Family-allied Family Policy Council.

Additional Articles or Resources

Children in Drag

Do Not Fall for the ‘Affirm Them or They Will Die’ Lie

No, You Shouldn’t Take Your Children to an LGBT Pride Parade

Christopher Rufo Explains the Real, Dark Intentions Behind Drag Queen Story Hour

New Research Confirms Previous Findings: Most Gender Confused Kids Desist

Gallup Poll Shows Yet Another Increase in ‘LGBTQ+’ Identities

Are People Born Gay? A Look At What the Research Shows and What It Means for You

Written by Emily Washburn · Categorized: Culture, Sexuality · Tagged: identity, LGBT, transgender

Oct 30 2024

Raising Kids in a Secular Age

Talking with kids about controversial topics has always been a challenge for parents, but today, the stakes are especially high. With an increasing number of kids who have been secretly “transitioned” by public school staff or who have adopted LGBT identities thanks to online influences, parents must know how to navigate tainted cultural waters that are flooding the worldviews of the younger generations.  

Opting for alternatives to public education like home school  or private Christian schooling is a good start.

But it can’t stop there. A 2022 study found that of 57,000 undergrads from 159 of the nation’s most elite posts econdary institutions, home schooled and private schooled kids “are as or more likely to identify as LGBT or non-binary as those from public or private school backgrounds.”  

In other words, it’s not enough to insulate children from bad ideas, especially when insulation is accompanied by silence on issues our kids are hearing about all the time from the wider world. Of course, many parents remain silent because they simply do not know how to think about everything. And yet, as a recent Gospel Coalition article noted, silence on these issues undermines Christian formation.  

On the one hand, we could unintentionally communicate that God doesn’t care about our sexuality. If we never tell our children that God says a clear ‘no’ to same-sex sexual relationships, we could leave them to conclude that Christians can just follow their hearts. … 
On the other hand, our silence could accidentally communicate that sexuality is too shameful to discuss. They might conclude that God wants nothing to do with it because it’s dirty, or that God isn’t interested in saving their friends who identify as LGBT.

This is the same risk churches carry when they never address cultural issues from fear of backlash for being “too political.” But when bad ideas are everywhere, the church, much like parents, must have a response. Scripture is not lacking for real direction in real time and neither should the shepherds of Christian faith be.  

A better approach than insulating kids is to inoculate them. The “inoculation” approach welcomes hard questions, encourages students to think and search for the truth, and helps them learn what it takes to find answers that are both thorough and thoughtful. The goal is to equip students how to handle bad ideas, harmful practices, and sinful behaviors, knowing that they will inevitably encounter these things in an increasingly secular culture.    

In the 1950s, researcher Dr. William McGuire suggested bad ideas operate much like viruses do, and the more exposure one has to bad ideas in a controlled setting, the less likely they are to succumb to those ideas later. McGuire performed a series of experiments in which he tried to convince subjects of a lie, specifically that brushing their teeth was bad for them.

Unsurprisingly, those who received no preparation for what they were about to hear were more easily convinced to stop brushing, while those who had been warned they were going to hear a bad argument were harder to deceive.  

More surprising were those found to be easiest and hardest to dupe.

The most vulnerable were not those with zero preparation, but those who’d merely had the truth reinforced. They had been told things like, “You know brushing your teeth is good for you, right? You’ve been taught this since you were little. Trust us.” When they heard arguments against brushing their teeth that they’d never heard before, this group felt sheltered and even deceived.  

The least vulnerable were those who had not only been warned about bad arguments they’d hear but were also taught how to respond. In fact, they were warned they may face additional bad arguments. In other words, they were prepared to be aware and vigilant.  

This experiment demonstrates that the method many Christian parents and churches use to pass on the faith, reinforcement without seriously countering ideas, is doomed to fail. In fact, it may leave young people more vulnerable to lies. We need to equip our kids to think for themselves. 

This requires courage. It also requires confidence that the truth is, well, true and that answers can be found. The good news is that we live in an age of answers, in which most issues have not only been thoroughly addressed from a Christian worldview but are widely available.  

Written by John Stonestreet · Categorized: Education · Tagged: education, John Stonestreet, LGBT

Oct 28 2024

Dr. Phil is Right: Don’t Let Bullies Bully You

Dr. Phil gave a profoundly important speech this weekend in New York City encouraging his fellow citizens to stand up to bullies.

He told the largest crowd he has ever spoken to in person,

I may not be an expert in politics, but I am an expert about bullying. And bullying is when you seek to harm somebody, you seek to intimidate, coerce, cause distress, fear, and cause risk to their well-being. It can be physical, verbal, relational, or cyber-bullying. And it’s always wrong.

He strongly encouraged Americans to never allow themselves to be bullied by people who use their power to make them feel ashamed of their deepest-felt convictions about life, liberty and the essential values that make our country great.

Dr. Phil acknowledged that bad things happen today to people who stand up for what is right, saying, “They get canceled, intimidated, marginalized, excluded, or even fired or boycotted.”

He continued, “And you know what that means? In short, that adds up to being bullied,” adding, “That’s what happening in this country right now, and that’s not okay!”

It’s time that everyone of us close ranks and stop this now! It’s time that we push back against cancel culture. It’s time that we push back against intimidation tactics.

He’s precisely right.

Good Christians and average citizens have silenced themselves because they fear what could happen if they were to fully speak up for what they believe and the way they vote. They fear what could happen to their reputations, livelihoods and their freedoms. They fear their friends, family members and even their own children with different beliefs might cut off relationships because of these convictions.

That is emotional bullying in the extreme.

It is unhealthy behavior, but it works in silencing people.

Dr. Phil is telling all Americans to refuse to be bullied by such tactics. Be bold in speaking up for what you believe. Never back down. Disregard what those who disagree with you might say or do to intimidate you. Our country needs good people to strongly stand for what they know is right.

It seems to be women who are more willing to take bold, convictional stands. They are doing it on the life issue. They are doing it on gender and trans issues. They are doing it on legal issues like religious freedom. They are doing it on racial politics. They are doing it on DEI and media manipulation.

We should all encourage such strength and do our best to replicate it.

As we engage the profoundly important issues facing our country and its future, we must do so with resolute courage. You will likely be bullied for those beliefs, but courageous citizens are never swayed or intimidated by such ploys. Strong individuals know what is true and always stand for it.

That was the important message that Dr. Phil delivered this weekend in New York City.

We should all take heed of it.

Written by Glenn T. Stanton · Categorized: Culture · Tagged: LGBT, transgender

Oct 23 2024

Women Golfers Protest LPGA Policy Allowing ‘Transgender’ Competitors

Two hundred seventy-five women golfers sent a letter to the Ladies Professional Golf Association, the International Golf Federation, and the United States Golf Association protesting policies allowing men to compete against women.

The LPGA hosts a qualifying series of tournaments, known as qualifying schools, where players compete for a tour card, giving them membership in next year’s tour. This membership allows them to compete in many events without having to compete to qualify.

This year, “transgender”-identified golfer Hailey Davidson is set to play against 245 women at the LPGA Qualifying Series, October 20-25, in Venice, Florida.

The Independent Women’s Forum (IWF), a conservative group that “celebrates women’s accomplishments and fights to expand women’s options and opportunities,” believes:

Men and women are equal, but we are not the same. Biological differences between the sexes are more than skin-deep, and profoundly shape our lives.
The law must recognize this reality in certain circumstances, such as in sex-segregated sports teams or prisons, or it risks placing women and girls in harmful or even dangerous situations. E]

Men and women are equal, but we are not the same. Biological differences between the sexes are more than skin-deep, and profoundly shape our lives.

The law must recognize this reality in certain circumstances, such as in sex-segregated sports teams or prisons, or it risks placing women and girls in harmful or even dangerous situations. 

IWF shared the golfers’ letter with Fox Corporation’s Outkick, a sports and culture website. The letter states:

We all know there can be no equal athletic opportunity for women without a separate female golf category. Yet, the Ladies Professional Golf Association continues to propagate a policy that allows male athletes to qualify, compete and win in women’s golf, even as several national and international governing bodies of sport and state legislatures increasingly reject these unjust and inequitable policies that harm female athletes.

The 275 female athletes who signed the letter oppose the LPGA’s Gender Policy, which seeks “to provide transgender athletes an avenue to membership and opportunity to participate in events, and in an effort to assure fair competition for all members and participants.”

The policy states:

Tournaments and membership are open only to female athletes, including transitioned female athletes.

“Transitioned female athletes” don’t exist, of course. Only men and women exist, and they cannot “transition” to the other sex.

Transgender-identified applicants must notify the LGPA Tour of their “gender reassignment from male to female after puberty” and “provide proof of gender.” The policy lists two requirements:

The applicant must have undergone gender reassignment surgery (i.e., a gonadectomy) prior to submitting an application for membership or entering the tournament; and
The applicant must have undergone, for at least one (1) year, appropriate hormonal therapy and maintained testosterone levels in a verifiable manner sufficient to minimize or negate gender-related advantages in sport competitions

But a male athlete who has gone through puberty, even if he has his testicles removed and is taking estrogen, still maintains most of the size, strength and performance advantages of a male athlete, as the letter to the LPGA explains:

The male advantage in driving the ball is estimated around a 30% performance advantage; this is an enormous difference in the context of sport. Anatomical differences between males and females affect clubhead speed and regulating consistency at ball contact.
Females have higher mean heart rates and encounter greater physiological demands while playing, especially at high altitudes. The anatomical differences are not removed with male testosterone suppression. There is no way to turn a male into a female. Being female is not equated to being male with a reduction in strength [our emphasis].

Outkick reports that the female golfers are asking the LPGA, the U.S. Golf Association, and the International Golf Federation to:

Repeal all policies and rules that allow male golfers to participate in women’s golf events” and “establish and enforce the right of female professional golfers to participate in women’s golf based on sex-eligibility must be limited to members of the female sex.

Allowing men to compete in women’s athletics is inherently unfair, as men take opportunities, scholarships, places on teams and victories from women. Women’s privacy and safety are also at risk when men play women’s sports.

The website SheWon.org lists hundreds of “female athletes who were displaced by males in women’s sporting events and other types of competitions expressly for women.”

So far, the site lists 717 female athletes who lost 1,055 “medals, scholarships or other opportunities,” in 522 competitions in 37 sports – everything from cycling to disc golf, skiing to track and field, and swimming to rowing. She Won shows the women who would have won – if men had been kept from competing against them.

Related articles and resources:

Addressing Gender Identity with Honesty and Compassion

Counseling Consultation & Referrals

No, It’s Not ‘Complicated’ to Keep Men Out of Women’s Sports

Riley Gaines and 15 Other Female Athletes Sue NCAA Over ‘Transgender Policy’

#SaveGirlsSports – New Campaign Launched by Family Policy Alliance

Shoving Girls Off the Podium: More Male Athletes Participating in Girls Sports

Third Court Halts DOE’s Title IX Rewrite, Girls’ Sports & Spaces Preserved

Transgender Resources

Image from Shutterstock.

Written by Jeff Johnston · Categorized: Culture · Tagged: Girls Sports, LGBT, transgender

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